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Can You Afford To Have A Baby?

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By Jane Baker | 28 March 2008

Thinking about having a baby? Worried about the costs? If you think about it too much, you may decide the time will never be right financially. After all, you'll probably be earning less but spending more. But people do manage and so will you. Take at look at our baby checklist to help you with that all-important decision and ask yourself these key questions.

How stable is your income? Do you and/or your partner have a regular, steady income? As your costs are about to go up, you‘ll need the reassurance of knowing how much is coming in every month.

Can you cut back your outgoings? Pregnancy is a great opportunity to get your finances in order. You probably won't be socialising as much, so you should be able to make plenty of savings over the next nine months. Start cutting back on luxuries and put your money into a baby fund instead. Find a great savings account for your baby fund here.

Can you afford the basics for your baby? It could cost at least £700* to buy the basic items such as a cot, a travel system and clothes for the first few weeks. But you can spend far more. If you bought say, a designer buggy, the entire £700 budget could be blown on that one item alone.

Will you be a stay-at-home mum or a working-mum? You'll need to decide whether you're going back to work or staying at home full-time. For many of us, returning to work will be unavoidable. If you're lucky, you may have a parent close by who is willing to help out while you work.

Otherwise, you'll need to budget for childcare costs which depends on where you live, how old your child is (childcare for babies is usually more expensive), whether you qualify for state benefits, and any benefits provided by your employer such as childcare vouchers.

Here's a rough idea of what childcare costs could run to:

A nursery place: £126 to £375 per week. Typical cost in the UK is £152**

A childminder: £135 to £400 per week. Typical cost in the UK is £141**

A nanny: £258 to £328 per week.

Can you work from home? This won't work for everybody but if you have the right kind of job, can you negotiate working from home with your employer? That way, you may be able to keep your earnings up but your childcare costs down. That said, don't forget babies can be very demanding and it may be too difficult to juggle both. 

Can you reduce the cost of having a baby? Presents for your newborn will help with the initial costs. Borrow wherever you can and be grateful for hand-me-downs! Hunt around for baby bargains on eBay or borrow an American idea and organise a baby shower where generous friends and family will ‘shower' you with gifts before your baby arrives!

You could volunteer to babysit for friends and they'll do the same in return for you. There really are lots of ways you can save money.

More: How To Cut The Cost Of Having A Baby

*Estimate based on prices for basic items available at Mothercare.

** For a full-time place for a child under two.

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At 05:50 on March 31 2008, Gavrielli said:

Hi,

If you don't have life insurance...it would be good to have that in place also.

I know it made me worry less (ok...a tiny bit less).

At 09:44 on March 31 2008, carloswhizz said:

Or talk to your friends who have had babies already, bargains can be found or hand me downs as well. Forget designer baby stuff, they dribble and puke over that stuff as much as any old garment... And forget designer anything, you want a baby to be loved and adored not dressed up like a doll.

At 10:34 on March 31 2008, jab666 said:

£500 surestart grant, council flat rent paid, income support for life, it's very popular......

At 11:48 on March 31 2008, roxymadi said:

There are great websites where brand name pushchairs, travel systems etc can be found usually with good savings on the RRP, such as kiddicare.com and pramworld.co.uk. Also register for Boots.com newsletters and they will send you an email whenever they have a baby event on, there is currently 20% off some baby essentials. They also offer free delivery whan you spend over a certain amount, and don't forget to collect Boots points which you can then redeem on more baby essentials (or do what I do and treat yourself!!!)

At 12:37 on March 31 2008, tjfsteele said:

Washable nappies are very cost effective, easy to wash at home. I used an old beermaking fermentation bin to store them for washing, seemed appropriate and has a sealed lid.

Got a lovely IKEA cot from Freecycle.

Second hand mattresses are okay if you wrap them in heavy duty polythene, this is also advisable for new mattresses.

Breast feeding is cheaper and better for baby if you can manage it. If you're going out to work a simple mechanical breast pump (eg Avent) enables you to express and store milk in the fridge (or freeer).

At 10:22 on April 01 2008, f73 said:

.Hi,
I recently had to find a nanny for my child who is 3.5 months old. We live in London and the average wage we've come across is certainly between £400 (net) and £450 a week in Greater London and £500 and above for Central London. On top of that there are agency fees and further benefits like insurance, paid sick leaves, etc that the nanny can demand and which might have an impact on the overall cost of hiring a nanny.

So be careful running your numbers and check whether you can afford this form of child care.

At 18:48 on April 01 2008, tishtash said:

Comments from people like jab666 r very insensitive. not everyone with children can or even WANTS to sit on income support especially if you have mortgages and credit debts to get rid of. my partner and I have had to get a new place, get rid of credit debts and stop going out to prepare for the arrival of our little one in june. To be perfectly honest having a baby has made me even more determined to get rid of credit debts and the rate I'm going my debt free day will be September 2009.
I think its cheeky tot hink that everyone can live on 45 pound a week - there are many mums who have to go back to work and therefore will not be sitting on income support.

At 19:50 on April 01 2008, grant1411 said:

tishtash is right ........ but so is jab666 ! When my half sister was 16 she was the only girl in her class who wasn't pregnant . She was also the only one who didn't live in council accommodation ( because I got my Dad to use the right to buy scheme . ) And now she is 33 married to an asylum seeker / Albanian criminal , has one child , claims benefits and has worked a total of six weeks only in her entire life . Extreme example ? I have others , but tishtash certainly doesn't sound like one of them !

At 12:57 on April 20 2008, scotsfool100 said:

If you wait until you can afford to have a baby then you'll never have one. Having a family is the most important decision you can make so just go ahead and do it.

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