7 Tips For Your Husband's Portfolio

Published in Investing on 21 July 2011

He needs to calm down, think more and take fewer risks.

So you've let your husband invest your savings, but found his promised winners just never appear? Sounds like it's time you made money by helping out with the share-picking.

Girls will be girls

Sad to say for us chaps, but women are simply better investors than men. You see, according to Warren Buffet Invests Like A Girl, the new book from The Motley Fool, female investors tend to:

1. Trade less than men;

2. Exhibit less overconfidence;

3. Shun risk;

4. Be less optimistic and more realistic;

5. Spend more time researching investments;

6. Be more immune to peer pressure, and;

7. Learn from their mistakes.

The book claims your husband's duff trades are due to his hormones and how they affect his investing temperament. Apparently his testosterone levels are likely to be more than five times as high as yours, which in short can make him far too strong-headed, energetic and emotional when dealing with volatile financial markets. But then you probably knew that already.

Investing with a feminine touch

Of course your husband won't admit to any of this hormone stuff -- and no doubt he'll still keep the password to his broker account a secret -- but a feminine touch could easily calm him down and help him out. 

Just mention these seven investing tips when you next discuss your finances:

1. Take the long view and be patient;

2. Think about and learn more about investing in general;

3. Consider the downside potential;

4. Remain level-headed during market highs and lows;

5. Read annual reports instead of listening to hot tips down the pub or golf club;

6. Be willing to go against the crowd, and;

7. Refine his investing strategy over time.

Sounds a bit boring, but often boring is generally the way to success in the stock market. 

You could always persuade your husband about the merits of any big-name shares you're familiar with. Stable large-caps such as Next (LSE: NXT) and Unilever (LSE: ULVR), for example, might not get your man's pulse racing, but over time are more likely to provide better returns than his impulsive punts on dodgy penny stocks.

Encouraging a thoughtful, buy-and-hold approach should stop him from always investing your money in the wrong stocks at the wrong time. And like any dutiful husband ... he'll undoubtedly take full credit for the improved performance!

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SmudgeButt 21 Jul 2011 , 9:13am

What a patronising article. Not all women are obsessed with clothing and cleaning products. And not all women just roll over and abdicate their brains and give their husbands a free run with all financial decisions.

brightncheerful 21 Jul 2011 , 9:36am

I appreciate that personal experiences are not necessarily representative but I have found it pays to take notice. For example:

Years ago, my mother urged my father to buy shares in BhS. He researched and decided against. So much to my father's annoyance, she used some of her savings and went ahead any bought them anyway. The sp soared.

Mrs BnC tells me that I bought shares in Mulberry when she told me to (that was when she'd just bought another Mulberry handbag), the sp would've gone up several times by now.

When I told Mrs BnC that I was contemplating buying shares in ASOS at about £4 or so but thought them too racy, she said they'll go places. They have done: circa £23 now.

IDPickering 21 Jul 2011 , 9:39am

I read it for what it was to be honest. Very accurate in our household to be honest. She who must be obeyed allows me to do exactly as the item describes.

We are a team, and I'm grateful Hazel allows me to 'play' with our money as I do. Not so much though, as I'm a HYPer at heart. ;-)

Duchy57 21 Jul 2011 , 10:10am

I think a lot of women still steer clear of taking an interest in financial investment, and leave that side of things to their husbands/partners, despite the fact that we are in the 21st century. This is a very worrying thing, in my opinion.

NK104 21 Jul 2011 , 10:18am

I always thought the Motley Fool was one of the few media outlets that treated men as reasoning creatures rather than dolts.

If you want to adopt the snide tone that the rest of the media adopts then I will go elsewhere.

SuzyQ108 21 Jul 2011 , 11:09am

This article has clearly been edited down a smidge, in order to fit it on the page. Later on, the author probably goes on to say "Prepare yourself for your husband's homecoming. Take 15 minutes to rest so that you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people."

Why should wives "let our husbands invest our savings"? We are perfectly capable of investing our own, thank you very much. If my husband wants to have a bit of go at investing, then we discuss the possibles together if the plan is to use joint money. If I want to have a crack at investing, then we discuss the possibles together...

This article manages to be insulting to men (it's your hormones, dear, you can't help it) AND women simultaneously!


Rustynail1966 21 Jul 2011 , 11:16am

Let's all relax...........this is a light hearted view on typical stereo type male and female investment traits and I guess all of us fall into one group or the other, or both, whether your male or female.

I fall into both camps; I like the core of my investments in typical HYP shares, however, the impatient/aggressive side likes the odd punt on the likes of Provexis (PXS) or Advanced Medical Solutions (AMS). I don't read anything into that about my gender or sexual orientation!

The article is what it is ............ to Educate, Amuse, Enrich and also to advertise TMF's 'Warren Buffett Invests Like A Girl' (a title I think is a terrible choice - so last year!), sadly, the sales will be judged on by peoples sensitivity to its title and not its content.

piecan 21 Jul 2011 , 11:56am

I'll do anything to improve my investments performance, so I'm looking into the possibility of a sex change.

Pontebantam 21 Jul 2011 , 11:56am

I was almost going to go a little further with the debate started (please note this is LIGHT HEARTED!)

I've recently downloaded a wonderful book on my Kindle, I've read several extracts to my good lady in the hope she would perhaps take the hint and begin reading herself...

The book is entitled 'The Book of Household Management' by a Mrs Isabella Mary Beeton.

Suffice to say I managed to remove the Kindle after some rather painful moments.......

Prof103 21 Jul 2011 , 12:06pm

Calm down everybody.

Both sets of attributes 1 to 7 could be pulled out of the classic Ben Graham "The Intelligent Investor". That Warren Buffett should possess them is solely down to Ben Graham being his mentor, little else.

P103

manzanilla 21 Jul 2011 , 1:05pm

I'm just back from the Coastal AGM (http://www.coastalenergy.com/). Do you think I should try to influence my partner to invest in it? Your advice would be helpful, because as a girl I obviously have no idea whether it is a good buy or not ... and I don't want him to think it's a girly stock... and it doesn't look boring....

goodlifer 21 Jul 2011 , 1:20pm

It seems to me that some people invest with their brains, some people with their hormones.
If you use your brains it doesn't matter a row of pins if you're male or female.

UncleEbenezer 21 Jul 2011 , 2:07pm

Mightn't the truth be simple self-selection?

Far more men than women dabble with investments (empirical observation). Those (fewer) women who do are a self-selecting sample of the total population, and tend to be the ones who are good at it.

Does private investment - starting your own business, investing in a friend's, acting the 'angel' - show similar patterns to listed investments?

CunningCliff 21 Jul 2011 , 2:29pm

For goodness' sake, stop getting on your high horse, people.

This isn't the Daily Mail, it's the Fool (former motto: "Educate, Amuse, Enrich").

If you can't see that Maynard is being light-hearted and flippant, then go straight to the back of the class. D'oh!

Cliff

manzanilla 21 Jul 2011 , 3:42pm

If you can't see why this 'light-hearted and flippant' comes across as so offensive, perhaps you should go to the back of the class...

liesarenocomfort 21 Jul 2011 , 6:10pm

@Manzanilla,

Coastalenergy eh? They got some pretty rig pics on the website.

I suggest you just leave the prospectus lying around – then your partner can pick it up and think it was his idea to invest.

Plus he’ll be able to make sense of all those complicated charts and numbers and such for you.

Were you on the teas at the AGM then?

Liesar

(Sorry, couldn’t find the irony font)

Duchy57 21 Jul 2011 , 6:29pm

I just love it! Not laughed so much for a long time. Keep the comments rolling in - educate, enrich, AMUSE!!

SmudgeButt 22 Jul 2011 , 10:57am

Educate, enrich and amuse.

Trying to see where any of those fit with this article. The podcast had already covered the educate bit. The enrich is assumed if one takes the advice to heart. But amuse? Obviously this missed the mark with more people than me.

If the point was to get stereotypical men to invest more like stereotypical women perhaps the title of the article should have been something that might have more obviously enticed the testosterone injected lads to read it - perhaps "how to beat your wife (at investing)". Oh that would be amusing now wouldn't it?!

Paton's articles are usually more on target than this one.

ProfessorMarcus 03 Aug 2011 , 5:22pm

I'm shocked and outraged that this article has ignored the stock-picking skills of hermaphrodites.



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